WATCH: JWoww’s best dating advice: ‘Never settle’

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Reality TV star and married Jersey mom of two Jenni “JWoww” Farley knows a thing or two about dating, and now she’s sharing her advice to help you find the love of your life, and not waste your time on losers, which she elaborates on in her book, The Rules According to JWoww.

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Jenni’s number one helpful hint when it comes to matching up with your soul mate? “Never settle.” She explains that part of the reason her marriage to husband Roger Mathews has been successful is because they grew together but their “core foundation” as a couple has been stable.

Rule two? Never go home with a guy you just met. The exception? If you only want to hook up, Jenni says, go for it.

Rule three is spell it out. Let your guy know exactly what you’re looking for, so that he’s prepared.

Rule four: Don’t f–k up the first date. In other words, don’t talk about yourself the whole time and don’t drink yourself under the table. Jenni advises you to “Hold back a little” and match your date question for question, and leave some mysteries so you can get to know each other.

Lately, don’t be negative. Just say no to being a Debbie Downer or “you’re never going to find anyone that truly is worth having.”

Watch Jenni dish out her best dating tips below, and if you have a dating question you’d like to see Jenni answer, comment below her YouTube video and she just may respond!