Advice from Dolores Catania’s 102-year-old grandmother we should all listen to

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Real Housewives of New Jersey ladies listen up! Dolores Catania posted the most adorable video of her 102-year-old grandmother doling out some solid advice to her warring co-stars (we’re looking at you Teresa Giudice, Melissa Gorga, and Jacqueline Laurita). Even though it’s clearly aimed at the RHONJ women, this honest advice is something we should all remember and use in our own lives.

Dolores asks her what she used to do when her friends fought. Grandma Catania tells her, “Well you want to know what it’s all about. Then you discuss it. Discuss it together to see who’s wrong and who’s right.”

Dolores then asks her what if neither one of them think that they’re wrong, and her grandmother says it’s then time to get a neutral person involved to help. “Well then you gotta get somebody else that ain’t in it,”  she dishes. “And you got to tell them what it is, and let them tell you, who they think is right or wrong. You gotta get someone else there to listen in and then they give their opinion.”

We love how Grandma Catania puts it all in perspective (stop with the petty fighting!). Throw this no-nonsense grandmother in a room with these ladies, and we guarantee all their problems and fighting will go away.